This is what I want.
For my clients.
That moment of self-realisation.
The one that always makes me smile. And love my job just a little bit more.
Not in an arrogant, ‘look-at-me’ kind of way.
But in an honest ‘stripped-bare-of-fear-and-doubt’ kind of way.
To truly ‘see’ yourself. Perhaps for the first time.
To see the brilliant, flawless diamond that you are.
The one buried deep within.
Beneath the layers.
The layers of shit. Murk. Crud.
The layers of filth and grime also known by their other names: fear and self-doubt.
Shovelled on in ever thickening layers with each year that passes.
No wonder we can’t easily see what lies beneath.
No wonder we can’t recognise our own brilliance, let alone own it, when it’s buried so deeply within.
How to excavate it. Uncover it?
Do you need a “Wife Coach” to point out and shine a light on your amazingness in order for you to see it?
There are many routes to amazing.
Maybe you’re already there. Or on the path. If so, I salute you. Keep on.
Great. But What’s This Got to Do with Feeling Frustrated in My Marriage?
The path to feeling better in your marriage starts with you.
The path to transforming your marriage starts with you.
When you can fully recognise your amazingness and own it you will create transformation.
With yourself. First.
You will give yourself permission to be who you are.
You will ask for what you want. Without making your happiness dependent on getting it.
You will set boundaries and be willing to enforce them.
You will say No without feeling guilty.
You will take exceptional care of you.
You will know what is important and you will organise your life around those things.
You will take responsibility for your own happiness.
When you do these things, you will have owned your own amazingness.
When you step into and own your brilliance, your relationships can’t help but be transformed.
Your relationship with your husband.
All of your relationships.
It all starts with you.
Give yourself permission to say: “I’m bloody amazing, actually!”
Take whatever route you need to get there.
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