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Does this sound familiar?

  • “I don’t know who I am anymore, let alone what I want… I just want to get ME back..”
  • “I want more but have no idea what ‘more’ even looks like – let alone how to get it!”
  • “I’m so conflicted… how can I leave and break my kids’ hearts.. I feel so guilty”
  • “I sometimes secretly wish my husband would have an affair, then I’d have a reason to leave..”
  • “Maybe it’s better to be in a bad marriage than on my own at my age?”

You feel trapped in a life and a marriage that just feels ‘wrong.’

You’re increasingly frustrated at living what feels like a lie to keep everyone else happy.

If this is you, you’re in good company… I’ve been there too. So have my clients.

When will it be your turn to be happy?

You don’t feel heard in your marriage. You don’t feel seen. You and your husband are emotionally disconnected
and you’re not sure couples counselling is the answer. Maybe you’ve tried it already or are going through it now.

You’re tired of waiting for your husband to change. And you have no idea what to do.

You’re haunted by the question: ‘Should I stay or should I go?

But here’s what I’ve learned: that’s the wrong question.

I’m here to tell you that your life and your happiness have nothing to do with your husband.

Feeling good starts with YOU.

The first step is figuring out how to get YOU back.

  • The woman who somehow disappeared amidst married life and raising kids.
  • The woman who sacrificed her career aspirations to put her husband and family first.
  • The woman who wakes up every morning wondering: ‘Is this it?”

But it’s the first step to building a life you love. It may mean leaving your marriage; it may not.

But your relationship isn’t why you’re unhappy.

Living a fulfilling and empowered life begins with re-learning who you are now and what you want deep inside.

A life where you can be true to yourself.

It’s about more than just your marriage.

It’s about YOU. And your one precious life. Your whole life.

  • It’s about not waking up every morning wondering: “Surely there’s more to life than this?”
  • It’s about knowing who you are now and what’s important to you – and designing your life
    around those things.
  • It’s about knowing what your ‘right’ life looks like – and deciding to create it, by design.
  • It’s about making choices that allow you to live true to yourself.

And not apologising for those choices.

I’ve Been Where You Are Now

On the outside my life looked good. Long marriage. Three healthy kids. Two incomes. One lovely family home.

I was a savvy professional, a busy wife and mother. And I was great at taking care of everyone else.

The impression was I had it all together.

But inside it was a different story.

I was frustrated and felt trapped in a life and a marriage I didn’t love.

I had a feeling my life could be so much more, but I didn’t have a clue what ‘more’ even looked like.

And I felt guilty and selfish for wanting it.

I know what it’s like to be miserable and, at the same time, worried sick about possibly tearing your
family apart and putting yourself first.

But let me tell you a secret: It’s NOT about whether you stay in your marriage or leave.

It’s not even about your relationship with your husband.

This is about you not knowing who you are anymore, let alone what you want.

The person you most need to reconnect with is YOU.

It takes real courage to admit you’re no longer willing to tolerate the status quo.

It takes guts to finally decide to prioritise yourself and your own happiness.

It takes a willingness to listen to the still, small voice deep inside of you, the one that knows you deserve more.

And yep, it’s bloody scary.

But you don’t have to do it alone.

Together, we’ll create a plan so you can learn how to reconnect with yourself, your thoughts and feelings,
and learn how to build a life you love.

Through our work, you’ll uncover your truth about what you really want
regarding the future of your marriage.

It’s a process that works, for three reasons:

It’s all about YOU. Not you the wife, the mother, the daughter, the professional.
YOU the woman. Because transformation in your life starts with YOU.

It gets to the truth of what you really want. The truth beneath the fears, doubts, thoughts and beliefs
that limit you and keep you small. And while it can feel scary at first, there is a great freedom
in finally admitting your own truth to yourself.

It allows you to make confident, empowered choices from a place of self-responsibility.
Choices that are fuelled by love and compassion, for yourself and your husband.
Instead of from anger, bitterness and resentment.

Bottom line: It’s a process that works – regardless of the decision you make about your marriage.
It works because it’s about you, and it’s for you.

I’ve achieved a complete 180 degree shift in my relationship. Previously I’d been steeped in negativity towards my husband. I’m now more affectionate, compassionate and loving towards him... it’s been transformational! Amazingly, it’s been so damn easy - and I’m receiving that behaviour back!! The programme was excellent value for money and Julie’s supportive, empathetic approach was spot on, with the right amount of written work, personalised coaching and easy to implement tools.  There’ll be ups and downs in future I’m sure - but I really do feel I have the tools to navigate those now. I’d recommend The Untethered Wife in a heartbeat if you’re feeling stuck and are willing to do the work. My huge thanks Julie for helping me turn this around!
Mrs. S.S. London, UK
When I joined The Untethered Wife I didn’t expect to see things so differently and achieve so much clarity. I'm now much more aware of how I want to move forward in my marriage. I learned to value myself and appreciate how strong and determined I am and this has greatly improved my self-confidence. Julie really cared about my progress and always encouraged me with her constant coaching. Her approach is powerful, caring and direct. My advice if you're signing up is to have an open attitude and trust the process. If you do this and invest your time, you'll be in wonderful hands and get exactly what you need. The Untethered Wife was a very good investment and I only wish it had continued longer!
Mrs. P.M. London, UK

That’s Why I Created The Untethered Wife Programme

The Untethered Wife is an eight week immersion into you and your life.

The Programme is for women like you who are feeling stuck and frustrated in their lives and marriages, to learn to reconnect with themselves and what they most want now.

Why? So you can create the happy and fulfilling life you desire and deserve. On purpose.

By design, not default.

Reserve your place today.

Investment: Two payments of £275 (US$370 approx) each spaced 30 days apart

The value and personalised support provided by Julie is amazing and unlike any other coaching I’ve had before. Being able to talk to someone who has experienced a similar situation is invaluable. I loved the structure of the programme and seeing each module build on the next to create the bigger picture. The investment in money and time was worth every penny.

Mrs. M.G. Hertfordshire, UK
I decided to work with Julie because of how I was feeling about my husband and my marriage. But I quickly learned that the work was mine to do. Julie helped me to focus on myself and how I could create my own happiness. I am blessed to have met Julie online. Amazing, life-changing – a wonderful woman. In life you get what you pay for and if you are seeking professional support, advice and guidance you want the best. Don’t hesitate to invest in your most precious resource – your mind!
Mrs. E.S City Beach, Western Australia

The Nitty Gritty: Here's What You Get

Through online lessons, live calls with me, real life exercises, and support from the private The Untethered Wife community, you’ll learn how to reconnect with the woman you are today. Here’s how:

Throughout the eight weeks you will achieve:

Clarity – You will gain clarity about your feelings for your husband and your marriage so that, when the time is right, you can make an empowered decision to stay or leave from a place of love – for yourself and your husband

Connection – You will reconnect with the woman you are today so that you truly know what your ‘right’ life looks and feels like

Freedom – You will let go of the stories causing you to feel blame, resentment and guilt and get in touch with your deeper truth. You’ll understand how your fear-fuelled beliefs have kept you stuck and frustrated and how to change them

Confidence – You will cultivate the confidence that comes from knowing yourself well and trusting in your own inner wisdom

Control – You will learn how to take back your power by using a simple but powerful model for managing your mind and emotions so that you can consciously choose how you want to feel and act in any situation

Empowerment – You will have the tools and awareness to make confident, empowered choices that equip you to create the happy, fulfilling future you deserve

By the end of The Untethered Wife you will understand, on a deep level, who you are today
and what you want for your life now – and how to give yourself permission to create it.

Here’s how it will all unfold:

Expand the modules below to see the details of the process we'll work through together:

MODULE 0: Get Ready to be an Untethered Wife!

RESULTS: Get clear on your goals for the Programme; make them tangible and measurable. Take a sneak peak at the
simple but powerful CTFAR Model that will underpin all of our work together.

MODULE 1: Laying Your Foundations

RESULTS: Learn what it means to be an Untethered Wife. Understand how you got to where you are today,
and where you want to go from here. Identify and prioritise your Core Values and use them as your guiding compass.

MODULE 2: Getting Beneath the Surface - Digging Deeper into You

RESULTS: Understand the crucial role your Thoughts and Beliefs play in your life. Learn how to
manage your mind and emotions and move beyond your limitations to get the results you desire.

MODULE 3: Your Rule Book

RESULTS: Understand what a Rule Book is, what yours contains and why you need to throw it away regardless
of the outcome for your marriage. Learn what to do instead to feel empowered in your relationship.

MODULE 4: Your Desires and Telling Yourself the Truth

RESULTS: Tune in and get crystal clear on what you really want - for yourself, your marriage and your life.
Uncover your Why. Understand the power of owning your truth. Tune in to your Desires and name them.

MODULE 5: Taking Care of You

RESULTS: Become your own advocate and understand why extraordinary Self-Care is key to your future happiness
and emotional well being. Learn and apply the three pillars of self-care. Understand the importance of healthy boundaries
and why they are for you, not the other person. Learn how to create and uphold healthy boundaries in your marriage.

MODULE 6: Bringing it all Together: Clarity + Your Next Steps

RESULTS: Clarity on how to move forward from here. Creating your life by design - your next steps.

MATERIALS FOR ALL MODULES: Reading Notes, Worksheets, Homework Exercises

Q&A CALL: Get all your questions answered and turn your challenges into goals and strategies

Plus these Bonuses:

  • A one hour 1:1 Skype coaching session with me (£250/USD$300 value) plus email follow up
  • Personalised individual feedback on all of your homework assignments

You Don’t Have To Do It Alone: The Untethered Wife Community

When you are struggling in your marriage, it can be a lonely journey. We often feel alone and isolated,
and as though nobody else understands what we are going through.

I want you to know that you’re not alone.

You’ll have my support throughout the Programme. And when you sign up, you’ll get lifetime membership to the private
The Untethered Wife Facebook group. A community made up of women just like you, learning and growing together.

No matter what stage of your life and marriage you’re at, you’ll have the help, support and encouragement of not just myself,
but every other member of this community.

We are each on our own unique path towards creating our  ‘right’ lives. Having like-minded travellers
along with us for the journey makes the road ahead less daunting and more enjoyable.

Don’t you agree?

If you’re ready to finally answer the question of whether you should stay in your
marriage or leave, and learn how to create your ‘right’ life by design, sign up today.

Investment: Two payments of £275 (US$370 approx) each spaced 30 days apart

The Programme includes:

            1. Eight weeks of learning and coaching with me by your side every step of the way

            2. All reading notes, worksheets and homework exercises

            3. Six live group coaching calls where we’ll extract the learning from the modules and apply it
                 to your life

            4. Bonus Q&A call to answer all your questions

            5. Lifetime membership to The Untethered Wife Facebook community where you can connect with
                like-minded women on a similar journey to you

PLUS: A one hour 1:1 Skype coaching session with me including email follow up
(£250/US$340 value)

What happens after you purchase?

You’ll receive an email confirming your purchase and welcoming you to the Programme. You’ll be invited to join the private The Untethered Wife Facebook community and receive a one-page questionnaire to get you thinking about your goals for our work together.

Shortly before the course launches, I’ll be in touch with my thoughts and questions to get you prepared and ready for our January start date.

As a result of working with Julie I felt like I found myself again.. having got very lost along the way. Julie helped me in unimaginable ways, way beyond just my marriage. I understand myself and my relationship so much better and I know it’s up to me to take responsibility for how I want to feel. I’m excited now about the possibilities ahead! Julie is professional, encouraging and honest – she is also partly a magician! I recommend Julie and her work to any woman having marriage woes. Thank you Julie! (That is one of the biggest Thank you’s I have ever said!)

Mrs. B.B. Worcestershire, UK
I found Julie online after Googling: ‘How to give myself permission to leave my husband’ and knew I’d located a valuable resource. I had struggled to make the decision to leave my marriage for seven years and felt very stuck and frustrated. Julie’s approach helped me organise my thoughts in a clear, kind and compassionate way so that I could move forward with my decision. Her coaching and continued support and encouragement were invaluable. I strongly recommend Julie and her services to any woman struggling to give herself permission to make choices based on HER own needs. I am so thankful I found you and I appreciate your help very much Julie!!!

Mrs. B.H. Mississippi, USA

FAQs: Fabulously Astute Questions

Expand each question below to reveal the answers:

How can this help my marriage if my husband isn’t involved..
how is this different to marriage counselling?

Let me be clear: This is not marriage coaching or marriage counselling. This work is primarily about you, for you.
It’s about your relationship with yourself. Why? Because all transformation in your life starts with you.
Working on ‘you’ and what you truly want will give you the clarity you desire about how to move forward in your marriage.
Put simply, you will have a different perspective on how you want to ‘do’ your life and marriage.

What if I don’t want my husband to know I’m taking this Programme –
what will you be sending to me?

You’ll receive emails about the Programme from ‘Julie Marah’ including links to the Modules held within a secure,
password-protected area of my website. If you want to ensure your participation in the Programme remains private,
I recommend you use an email address that only you have access to. Your Paypal notifications will simply say
you have made payments to ‘Julie Marah Professional Coaching.’

I’m not sure I’m comfortable talking about my marriage in a group –
it’s very private?

I understand; it’s a personal topic. Rest assured you can share as much or as little during our group calls and in the
private Facebook community as you feel comfortable with. I do however strongly recommend that you participate fully
to get the most from the experience. Remember this Programme is first and foremost about you, not your marriage.
The group will be facilitated by me in a safe, supportive and confidential space. What’s discussed in the group stays in the group;
it will be a judgement-free zone. Every woman participating alongside you will be on a similar journey, even though their
circumstances may be different to yours. What I absolutely can tell you is that when a group of smart, compassionate,
like-minded women come together and support each other, magic happens!

Couldn’t I just read a self-help book and get the same results?

You could certainly take that approach and get some results, depending on how well you apply the book's
concepts, and assuming they are appropriate for you. However, there is no book that can provide expert,
personalised 1:1 feedback on how the teachings apply to your life and marriage, nor offer emotional support as you do so.
That's the value I provide to my clients, as well as creating a safe space for them to do the work
in the company of other like-minded women.

If I share personal information about my marriage during the Programme,
are you going to give me advice and/or tell me I should leave?

Absolutely not! The only person who knows what is right for you regarding your life and marriage is you.
What you will get is professional, unbiased support and coaching that will guide you to your own answers.

I already know I want to leave my marriage, but the thought of doing so
is terrifying – can you still help me?

Yes. We will be diving into the thoughts, beliefs and fears holding you back and creating strategies to help you overcome
your obstacles. You won’t ever have to do anything you don’t want to do, but you will understand what is driving your fears
and how to overcome them.

What if I realise I want to leave but I’m not in a financial position to do so –
won’t I just feel worse?

No. You can get to a place of knowing you want to leave, and make an empowered choice to stay if that
is what is best for you right now. You will learn how to take ownership for your choices and how to create
a plan to get you where you want to be in the future.

Why should I be the one to do all this work when my husband is the problem?

Because you are the one who is unhappy. And you are the only person who can change that. Your happiness
is your responsibility, not your husband’s. And when you have completed the Programme, you will have
a new perspective on ‘blame’ vs self-responsibility.

Will the times of the group calls work for me – what if I’m in a different
time zone to you?

I will choose times based on what works best for most time zones. And while I encourage you to be on the live calls
if you possibly can, all calls with be recorded and you will be able to access the recordings within 24 hours.
You can also submit your questions in advance and I will address them on the calls.

What if I get to the end of the Programme and decide I want to leave but don’t
have a clue how to make it happen – what then?

The outcome of the Programme is that you will have clarity on whether you want to stay in your marriage or leave.
If you require help putting your choices into action, I can offer you 1:1 coaching support.
With that in mind, I will be creating a mini 1:1 offer at a discounted rate for women in this situation.
Remember you will also have a one hour 1:1 coaching session with me when you have completed all the Modules.

How do I know the investment in the Programme is going to be worth it?

Great question! First and foremost, this Programme is an investment in YOU. It’s been designed specifically to
help you overcome what is holding you back in your life and marriage. It will give you the tools to create the
happy and fulfilling life you desire and deserve. Imagine being in the same stuck place one year, or five years,
from now. How would that feel? What I can tell you is that I have taken many, many women through my process
over the last several years and every one of them has gained immense personal ‘value’ from their investment.

Can I split the fee into two instalments?

Yes. For a limited time, the introductory pricing allows you to pay in two instalments of £275/USD370 approx,
each spaced 30 days apart.

Risk-Free Guarantee

I want to make signing up to The Untethered Wife a ‘no-brainer’ decision for you -
because I am so confident of the value you will receive.

I promise that if you make this decision to invest in yourself, fully commit to the process,
show up and do the work, you will benefit greatly from The Untethered Wife Programme.

To make this a completely risk-free decision for you, if after 14 days from the start of the
Programme you haven’t received any value whatsoever, simply return your completed
                                            worksheets from Modules 0 and 1 to me, and I’ll provide a full refund.

If you’re ready to finally answer the question of whether you should stay in your
marriage or leave, and learn how to create your ‘right’ life by design, sign up today.

Investment: Two payments of £275 (US$370 approx) each spaced 30 days apart

The Programme includes:

            1. Eight weeks of learning and coaching with me by your side every step of the way

            2. All reading notes, worksheets and homework exercises

            3. Six live group coaching calls where we’ll extract the learning from the modules and apply it
                 to your life

            4. Bonus Q&A call to answer all your questions

            5. Lifetime membership to The Untethered Wife Facebook community where you can connect with
                like-minded women on a similar journey to you

 PLUS: For a limited time, a one hour 1:1 Skype coaching session with me including email follow up (£250/US$340 value)

Your ‘Wife’ Coach, Julie Marah

I’m Julie Marah and I know what it’s like to be miserable and, at the same time, 
worried sick about possibly tearing your family apart and putting yourself first.

What I've learned is that it’s NOT about whether you stay in your marriage or leave.

It’s not even about your relationship with your husband.

This is about you not knowing who you are anymore, let alone what you want.

Every day, I help smart successful women like you explore what your ‘right’ life looks like, so you can
make it your reality. I help you figure out who you are today and what you actually want now so you
can make confident, empowered choices.

Choices that allow you to live true to yourself.

Sound good? You’re in the right place. Let’s do this.