Have you reached your ‘something’s gotta give’ moment
in your marriage?
That point where you just know you can’t tolerate the status quo a moment longer?
You know something’s got to change.
But you’re confused and conflicted about the best way forward.
Should you stay in your marriage and try to make things better
(even though it feels like you’ve been trying to do that for years!)
Or is it time to call it a day and leave?
A terrifying prospect – though, one that, at times, feels strangely liberating
when you contemplate it!
You feel like you’ve gradually lost yourself in your marriage.
The woman you used to be.
The confident, capable, smart woman inside has somehow disappeared
in the midst of married life and kids.
And the woman you are today is full of fear and self-doubt, second-guessing yourself
at every turn.
Is it time for a different approach?
One where you focus on yourself and your own happiness, instead of waiting for your
husband to change?
I’ve Been There
And I came out the other side.
You absolutely can too.
For me, it was the right choice to end my 22 year marriage.
When I made that terrifying decision eight years ago, I could never have imagined the life I have today.
I’m not saying it’s all rainbows and butterflies.. we all have our own particular flavour of shit sandwich
to deal with!
But I wouldn’t change a thing.
My life is immeasurably happier and more real than it was back then.
Your ‘Right’ Life
Ending your marriage may be the right choice for you. And it may not.
That’s not the point.
The point is you deserve to live a happy, fulfilling life.
You are allowed to create and live your ‘right’ life.
However, that looks for you.
A life where you can live true to yourself, without apology.
Inside of your marriage. Or out.
Because, frankly, it’s the only way to live.
It’s the only route to true happiness.
Living your life for other people – your kids, your parents, even your husband,
is never going to make you happy.
You Don’t Have to Do it Alone
I know what a scary, lonely place it can be when you’re struggling in your marriage.
You feel so alone, as though you’re the only person in the world going through it.
And while it’s rarely an easy journey, having the right support can make all the difference
to how you get through it.
And to making the choice that’s right for you.
A choice made from self-responsibility.
One that feels empowering.
Not a decision based on anger, resentment and blame.
You can achieve the clarity you’re seeking while being guided by a coach who’s been where you are now.
And you can do so in the company of like-minded women on a similar journey to you.
That’s exactly why I created The Untethered Wife.
Registration for The Untethered Wife Programme is now Open
The Untethered Wife is an eight week immersion into you and your life.
First and foremost, it’s about your relationship with yourself.
It’s about you. For you.
Because transformation in your life and marriage starts with YOU.
The next round of this eight week experience starts Tuesday 6th February.
Please join us.
Find all the details and booking link here.
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