When will it be your Turn to be Happy?
You feel trapped in a life and a marriage that just feels ‘wrong.’ You’re increasingly frustrated at living what seems like a lie to keep others happy.
You don’t feel heard in your marriage. You and your husband are emotionally disconnected and you’re not sure couples counselling is the answer. Maybe you’ve tried it already or are going through it now.
You’re tired of waiting for your husband to change, and you have no idea what to do.
You’re haunted by the question: ‘Should I stay or should I go?’
But that’s the wrong question.
I’m Julie Marah and I’m here to tell you that your life and your happiness have nothing to do with your husband.
Feeling good starts with YOU.
The first step is figuring out how to get YOU back. The woman who somehow disappeared amidst married life and raising kids.
Finding out who you are now and what you want isn’t all that difficult.
But it’s the first step in building a life you love. It may mean leaving your marriage and it may not. But your relationship isn’t why you’re unhappy.
Living a fulfilling and empowered life begins with re-learning who you are and what you want deep inside.
I know because I had a similar journey. It brought me here, helping other women make smart choices to live life on their own terms.
A life where you can be true to yourself.
Sound good? You’re in the right place.
Empowered Choices Empowered Woman Programme
Three Months 1:1 Coaching
Let me introduce you to the Empowered Choices, Empowered Woman. A three month 1:1 immersion that will get you crystal clear on who you are now, what you want for your life and your marriage, why it all matters and how to give yourself permission to create your ‘right’ life.
The kind of life that is happy and fulfilling. One that is created from confident, empowered choices. Choices that you will not apologise for.
It all begins with:
- Clarity – You will gain clarity about your feelings for your husband and your marriage so that, when the time is right, you can make an empowered decision to stay or leave from a place of love – for yourself and your husband.
- Connection – You will reconnect with the woman you are today so that you truly know what your ‘right’ life looks and feels like.
- Freedom – You will let go of the stories causing you to feel blame, resentment and guilt and get in touch with your deeper truth. You’ll understand how your fear-fuelled beliefs have kept you stuck and frustrated and how to change them.
- Confidence – You will cultivate the confidence that comes from knowing yourself well and trusting in your own inner wisdom.
- Control – You will learn how to take your power back by using a simple but powerful model for managing your mind and emotions so that you can consciously choose how you want to feel and act in any situation.
- Empowerment – You will have the tools and awareness to make confident, empowered choices that allow you to create the happy, fulfilling future you deserve.
By the end of Empowered Choices, Empowered Woman you will understand, on a deep level, who you are today and what you want for your life now – and how to create it.
So, how does all of this unfold?
- There are six modules containing structured topics and tangible outcomes. Each module is designed to build on the next. You’ll work on these between coaching sessions – one module per two week period. (You’ll commit 60-75 minutes per week to this work including reflection time.)
- We will have 6 x 60 minute bi-weekly recorded Skype sessions. Each one will combine a unique blend of your insights and learnings from the current module, together with personalised coaching tailored to your needs and goals.
- In between sessions we will keep in regular contact and I will coach you via email so that you never feel alone and are fully supported during our time together. This additional support will be invaluable.
- The programme is an ‘immersion’ into you and your inner life. It may, at times, be an emotional ride. I promise you it will be worth it.
Following this experience you will fully understand what it means to live true to yourself, without apology. And how to give yourself permission to do just that.
What Comes Next?
Throughout the Empowered Choices, Empowered Woman Programme you will immerse yourself in deep self-reflection and learning. On completion of this work you will be equipped to make an empowered choice about the future of your marriage.
Should you require ongoing coaching as you put your choices into action it would be an honour to support you with your next steps. We will make that determination together at the end of the programme, based on your individual needs.
How is this Different to Marriage Counselling?
Let me be clear here: This is not marriage counselling or marriage coaching.
This work is about you, for you. First and foremost, it is about your relationship with yourself.
Why? Because transformation in your life starts with you.
The question to be asking yourself now is not: ‘Should I stay in my marriage or leave?’
The right question is: ‘Who am I today and what do I actually want now?’
When you can answer that question with clarity and confidence, the changes you want to make in your life and marriage will become self-evident.
You will also understand why living true to yourself, without apology, is THE key to your true happiness.
And why it’s not just important, but essential.
What Will You Choose?
You could stay stuck in the ‘wrong’ life and marriage and continue to beat yourself up for not being able to figure things out by yourself.
You could ‘suck it up’ and wake up in five, 10 or more years wondering what happened to the life you were ‘supposed’ to have.
You could spend time and money on marriage counselling and still be left with the same sense of ‘wrongness.’
Or you could prioritise your own happiness and invest in the kind of support that has been tailor-made for you.
You could choose to invest in you – perhaps for the first time.
£500 per month for three months (USD690 per month approx.)
Ready to say Yes to Yourself?
Get in touch and request a free, confidential 30 minute Mini Clarity Session to explore if the programme is right for you.
It’s your opportunity to experience a taste of how I can help you and get all of your questions answered.
I have been where you are now. And I came out the other side.
I know exactly how you’re feeling and what you need. I will meet you where you are.
Here’s what my clients have to say about working with me:
The value and personalised support provided by Julie is amazing and unlike any other coaching I’ve had before. Being able to talk to someone who has experienced a similar situation is invaluable. I loved the structure of the programme and seeing each module build on the next to create the bigger picture. The investment in money and time was worth every penny.
Mrs. M.G., Hertfordshire, UK
I decided to work with Julie because of how I was feeling about my husband and my marriage. But I quickly learned that the work was mine to do. Julie helped me to focus on myself and how I could create my own happiness. Amazing, life-changing – a wonderful woman.
Mrs. E.S. City Beach, Western Australia
As a result of working with Julie I felt like I found myself again. Julie helped me in unimaginable ways, way beyond just my marriage. I understand myself and my relationship so much better and I know it’s up to me to take responsibility for how I want to feel. I’m excited now about the possibilities ahead… Thank you Julie! (That is one of the biggest thank you’s I have ever said!)
Mrs. B.B., Worcestershire, UK
The time for waiting is over. It’s time. Your time.
Your ‘right’ life is waiting for you to claim it.